Dr Dick’s response: It usually takes about four weeks after the fissure has healed before you can have anal sex again. Because the anal wall has been torn once, you may have a weak spot in that area for a while until the soft tissue has been completely healed and strengthened. I would suggest that you don’t engage in any form of anal activities for at least four weeks from today. Give it time to heal properly. And then take it gently. If the problem persists, consult with your general practitioner.
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