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Finger fucking

Fingering involves inserting one or two fingers into the anus. You can do this to yourself as part of your solosex, or you can do it to another guy. It can be a great way to explore or yourself or your partner, or can be used as part of fore-play. But remember to go slowly and gently if inexperienced or when with someone for the first time.

Ensure that your finger is wet (with spit or lube) and massage around your or your partner’s sphincter muscle (look: Sexual Health > Anatomy of the Anus). Carefully and slowly press your finger against the anus. Just remember to relax, enjoy the moment and ensure that your hand is clean and that your fingernails are cut beforehand.

Once you have carefully inserted your finger(s) into your or your partner’s anus (that is you have passed the sphincter muscle), you will find that there is more space to move around. Just on the inside (behind the penis) is the prostate (a walnut-shaped gland) (look: Anatomy of the Penis), which is also known as the male G spot. It is a very sensitive area and can be a source of sheer pleasure when rubbed gently with your finger.

Finger fucking can be a great preparation for anal sex. But for some guys it is exciting enough to finger fuck or be finger fucked. It is really up to you.

Please remember to wash your hands afterwards. This is especially important after fingering a partner as finger fucking does carry some risk of contracting Hepatitis A and B (look: STI’s).