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Many of us have had at least one risky sexual experience that we feared might have exposed us to HIV. It could have been a drunken one night stand or a burst condom, but the next morning, in the stark light of day, is usually an emotional nightmare. Wouldn't it be great if we could simply pop a pill or two to solve all our problems? Well today, we can. Well, sort of...
Jeffery (36), a publicity executive, has had three frightening experiences he won't soon forget. "The condom burst three times, three years in a row, almost to the day," he says. "The first time I was completely freaked out. The fact that the guy never asked me what my status was when it happened made me think that he was positive because he didn't seem to care."
The recent murders of at least seven gay men in Gauteng have highlighted the reality that casual sex may not just be risky when it comes to diseases and viruses, but also to your immediate physical safety, reputation and well-being.
While there's no firm evidence, it has been suggested that at least some of the murdered men might have met their killers through online dating sites. There's also been recent press coverage about two homeless men pressing charges of rape against a Pretoria man who allegedly picked them up on the street.
HIV and gay rights activists say new guidelines released by the UN World Health Organization (WHO) on HIV programming for men who have sex with men (MSM) will not only improve health service provision for MSM, but will also act as an advocacy tool in the fight for the rights of this marginalized population.
A young boy born and raised in Malamulele in rural Limpopo realised that he was different from other boys when he was growing up. From the age of seven Rhulani admired his male teachers at school and he preferred to play with girls and dolls.
He did not understand what was going on and his parents also came to understand that their boy was different from other boys. When they teased him and said: "we want you to get married to this girl" he would cry. They ended up deciding that he was not going to marry a girl.
As an HIV negative guy have you ever thought about knowingly dating someone who is HIV positive? Your first reaction could be to head for the hills at the mere possibly! Perhaps you've experienced being on a date or were about to strip off for a steamy sex session when the guy let you know that he's HIV positive. Many of us are likely to feel a sense of panic or even revulsion.